When families place their trust in me to support them through a funeral, I never take that lightly.

For me, this work has always been about people first. It is about listening properly, understanding the person who has died, and creating a service that feels honest, personal, and full of care.

That is one of the reasons why the Celebrant Accord is so important to me.

What is the Celebrant Accord?

The Celebrant Accord was created by the Funeral Celebrancy Council. It sets out clear standards for funeral celebrants and explains the level of care, professionalism, and support families should expect.

In simple terms, it is about doing this work properly.

It reminds celebrants that funerals are not simply events to organise. They are deeply personal moments in people’s lives. Moments that families will often remember forever.

Because of that, I believe every family deserves to feel listened to, supported, and cared for throughout the process.

Why I follow the Celebrant Accord

For me, the Celebrant Accord reflects the way I already believe funeral celebrancy should be approached.

Families are inviting me into one of the most difficult times in their lives. That requires compassion, patience, professionalism, and respect.

I believe people deserve more than a generic service.

They deserve someone who will take time to sit with them, listen to their stories, understand the person behind the name, and create something meaningful.

That may be a traditional service. It may be completely non-religious. Often, it may include a gentle mixture of both.

What matters most to me is that the service feels right for the person and the family.

The Celebrant Accord supports that approach.

Every funeral should feel personal

One of the things I value most within the Accord is the importance it places on individuality.

No two lives are the same.

So no two funerals should feel the same either.

Sometimes families worry that they need to fit into a certain style of service. I always reassure them that there is no “correct” way to say goodbye.

A funeral can include favourite music, personal stories, humour, quiet reflection, hymns, prayers, poetry, or simple moments of silence.

The most important thing is that it reflects the life of the person who has died.

I believe that is where meaningful funeral celebrancy truly begins.

Professional standards matter

I also believe professionalism matters deeply in this role.

Families should not have to chase updates or worry about whether things are being handled properly.

Good communication, preparation, reliability, and working respectfully alongside funeral directors all help create a smoother and more supportive experience for families.

Often, people do not realise how much happens behind the scenes before a funeral service takes place.

There are meetings, writing, planning, coordination, timings, music arrangements, and many small details that all come together to create the final service.

The Celebrant Accord recognises the importance of all of this.

Supporting families across Lincolnshire and beyond

As a funeral celebrant working across Lincolnshire, Peterborough, Cambridgeshire, Norfolk, Suffolk, Rutland, and Northamptonshire, I meet families from many different backgrounds, beliefs, and walks of life.

Every family is unique.

That is why I never believe in a “one size fits all” approach.

The Celebrant Accord helps keep the focus where it should always be, on the family, the person who has died, and creating a service filled with dignity, warmth, and care.

Final thoughts

For me, the Celebrant Accord is not about ticking boxes.

It is about values.

It reflects the kind of celebrant I strive to be and the level of care I believe every family deserves.

At the heart of it all is something very simple.

People matter.

Their stories matter.

And the way we say goodbye matters too.

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Written by Jon Matson-Higgins, Minister & Celebrant based in Lincolnshire, Cambridgeshire, Norfolk, Suffolk, Rutland and Northamptonshire.