At Jon Matson-Higgins, Minister and Celebrant, I never expect or ask for gifts. Simply being trusted to support you and your family, and to create a meaningful ceremony, is a privilege in itself.
From time to time, families choose to say thank you with a small gift, and these thoughtful gestures are always appreciated. A card, flowers, chocolates, biscuits, a book, or another small token of thanks can mean a great deal and are accepted in the spirit in which they are given.
As a guide, I will normally accept gifts with an estimated value of up to £35, provided they are offered freely and without any expectation of special treatment or favour.
If a gift appears to be worth more than £35, I may politely decline it. This helps ensure that I remain fair, transparent, and professional in all aspects of my work.
Occasionally, a family may wish to give a cash gift after a ceremony as a personal thank you. If this is offered voluntarily and without any expectation, it may be accepted. Cash gifts are never requested or expected.
To maintain openness and transparency, any gift accepted will be declared. Where I have been appointed by a funeral director, I will notify the funeral director that a gift has been received. Where appropriate, or where no funeral director has been involved, I will declare the gift to my professional body in accordance with its guidance.
Every family and client receives exactly the same care, support, and commitment, whether they choose to give a gift or not. My priority is, and always will be, providing a compassionate, personal, and professional service to everyone I have the privilege of supporting.